Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Christmas in Bolivia Continued...

For me, this pictures the beuaty, wonder and magic of Christmas.  Five-year old Amelia had no idea I was watching her as she introduced her new baby (her Christmas gift) to baby Jesus.

A gift of Italian fruitcake.  Yum!
Pictures after the Chistmas party.
Our Christmas cookies headed for the oven and the girls helping with the baking below...
Angel Anna...she really is!

Angela as Papa Noel

Christmas in downtown Cochabamba

Monday, December 12, 2011

Christmas in Bolivia

Dear Family and Friends,

Merry Christmas!  I hope it’s a beautiful one for all of you.  Many of the girls will be leaving on Thursday to spend Christmas with relatives, so we celebrated Christmas on Sunday.  I’m sure there will be more celebrating on Christmas Eve and Christmas day, but this way everyone was included.  The festivities start at around 6 pm.  The tables were covered with Christmas tablecloths and numerous homemade candle lanterns.  There were lights everywhere, three Christmas trees and a large nativity set. Angela played the role of Papa Noel, handing out gifts to the girls.  Each girl received a large Italian Fruit cake, underwear, a set of new clothes, and a toy for the little ones.  The gift for the older girls was a set of earrings.  The girls sang a couple of Christmas carols for the sisters and then the sisters served us a great meal of chicken, potatoes, rice, salad and corn on the cob.  Anna and I passed out the Christmas cookies for dessert and gave each of the girls a toothbrush.  

After cleaning up, we all headed outside to dance the night away.  The night was clear and warm, with a half moon and stars dotting the sky.  The sisters lit a huge bonfire, cranked up the stereo and we all danced to Bolivian music from around 7:30 until 11.   It was so much fun and what an amazing memory!  Anna and I just sat for a while, trying to take in every detail, and we talked about how very lucky we felt to be a part of all of this.  How many people have the opportunity to dance around a bonfire in the moonlight with 58 girls and three harmanas!

The week leading up to the celebration was very busy.  Anna and I baked dozens of Christmas cookies with the girls and everyone had a great time.  On a serious note, Angela, the other Salesian volunteer, told Anna and I that she will be going home for good on December 19.  I am still trying to process what this will mean for me, especially when Anna heads back to Germany later this year, but I have faith it will all work out.

There is still lots of celebrating yet to come, so I’ll let you know in a later blog how we actually spent Christmas Eve and day.  Today it is raining, so it feels a bit more like Christmas.  I was raised in southern California, but it’s been a very long time since I celebrated Christmas in 80 degree weather…I’m not complaining!  Oh, by the way, the puppies are three weeks old now.  Their eyes are open and they are walking.  They are sooo cute!  Love to all.  Feliz Navidad!      Pictures to follow tomorrow!


Sunday, November 27, 2011

One more

Here we are on a the bus...a feild trip to the botanical geardens.  This picture really gives you and idea of what it is like to be sourrounded by the girls.  That´s Lydia siting on my lap

Life with the Girls

Diana and her nine puppies...eight days old today

Lydia sits with me every night during the rosary and holds my hand...beautiful inside and out.

Volunteer Anna, playing with the kids

Elaina is the one who helps me in the garden, watches out for me and helps me with my Spanish.  She is really a angel.

Here I am, hard at work, ironing three huge tablecloths for the confirmation dinner two weeks ago.

Amelia, dressed and ready to go to her dance recital.  She is one of the five year olds I take care of and spend a good part of my weekdays with.

Aidee, also ready for her dance recital and another one of little ones I take care of during the day.

The last of my three little charges Ines.  Ines and Aidee were dressed as butterflys for their dance recital

I met Sr. Anna on our Thanksgiving trip to Montero.  She came to Bolivia as a volunteer ten years ago and loved it so much she decided to stay and become a nun.  I learned so much from her.  She is really amazing!

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Under the Mango Tree

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!  It is my day off and I´m spending the day in downtown Cochabamba relaning and enjoying some great food.  As you know, I had my first holiday in Bolivia last week and celebrated Thanksgiving on Saturday the 19 with around 20 other Salesian volunteers in Montero, Bolivia.  I wanted to share some of my experiences with you because it was such an amazing trip.  It started last Thursday, very early in the morning,  when Angela and I took the a taxi  to the main bus terminal.  Initially, it was our intention to fly, as I had heard horror stories about Bolivian roads, but the flight was $145 and the bus ticket was $14 round trip, so...Even though saving money was important, I was really so excited to see more of Bolivia.  Just so you know, if any of you come for a visit, the touring buses are very modern, clean and spacious.  I thoroughly enjoyed everything about it...the live infocommercials for various products, the steady stream of vendors who get on the bus and sell all sorts of drinks, snacks and even banana, mango ice cream cones (yum),  the beauty of the country side, the glimpes into lives of extreme poverty, the packs of burros on the sides of the road, the very cute families of pigs roaming around, the huge and beautiful roosters,the chaos of the stations where you stop to go the bathroom and walk around a bit, and then there was my absolute moment of panic when I thought the bus was taking off, while Angela was in the bathroom...only to find out, to my huge relief, that the driver was only pulling forward a bit, so we could access the open air market.  I´m such a gringa and still have so much to learn.

Our first destination was Yakipani, Bolivia, which is in a tropical area.  We were met by Marcos, a fellow Salisian volunteer who had invited us to stay the night in one of the rooms where he lives with the parish priest.   The plan was that he would then accompany us to Montero, where all the volunteers were meeting.  One of my first questions for Marcos was how many creepy crawler things were roaming around and what did I need to watch out for.  He assured me that if we kept our door shut to our room we wouldn´t have any problems.   He lied!   After taking us on a wonderful motorcycle ride to show as the barrios he serves and a little of the deeper jungle, we headed off to a dance perfromance at one of the schools where he teaching.  We were sitting on the upper stand, when all of the sudden I see this thing land on the court where the children were dancing.  At first I thought one of the young kids had thrown a toy on the ground.  My poor brain just couldn´t quite take it in, but within a few seconds I realizied it was in fact, some sort of flying insect.  I later learned it was, in fact, a water beetle.  Oh boy!  I´m not kidding you, I about had heart failure.  Within minutes, several small flying beetles landed near my back, where upon I almost jumped about ten feet off the back of the stands, until a kind Bolivian gentlemen calmly brushed them away.  This continued throughout our stay and let´s just say, we had several visitors in our bathroom whenever we needed to use it during the night.  Life in the jungle is not for the faint hearted and truly, I can´t imagine ever getting used to it.  Other than that, we had such a wonderful time.  We ended up staying two nights and were joined by two other volunteers, Monica and Amber who also work in an Hogar in Cochabamba, but on the other side of town and about an hour and a half by bus from where we live.

Marcos is a fantastic cook and made us enchiladas one night for dinner, totally from scratch, even the sauce.  I watched him carefully and asked lots of questions because enchilada sauce has always been somewhat of a mystery to me and now I´m ancious to give it a try.  He also made us a wonderful Mexican breakfast and we spend the rest of the day shopping for produce in the opend air market and preparing food for our Thanksgiving dinner the following day.   Marcos was a great host, lots of fun and we will definatly be visting him again when the hundreds of mangas ripen that are hanging on numerous manga trees in his yard.  My plan is to sit under the mango trees and eat mangos until I pop!

Saturday morning we headed out for Montero, where we met up with the other volunteers and shared an amazing Thankgiving meal with around 18 Salesian volunteers, Sr. Anna, and a visiting priest.  We ate,  drank and played game until late in the evening and it was so wonderful to see the four other volunteers who I went through orientation with back in New York.    Everyone shared stories and I leaned so many useful things about working with girls, travel and safety in Bolivia and how to protect your health.   We also took turns going around the table and everyone shared what they were grateful for.  It was very emotional, and, of course, I cried when I talked about how grateful I was for family and friends back home who love me and miss me, when so many of the girls have no family.  I also shared how grateful I was to be having all these amazing experiences in Bolivia.

When the evening came to an end, ee stayed in comfortable and beautiful rooms at the sisters´convent and, thank you Lord, there were no roaches or beetles.  Angela and I went to mass the following morning with all the girls in their hogar and the sisters and were all ready to head back when Mother Superior asked us if we´d like to stay another day.  I was so happy, I almost started crying again because we were having such a great time, and I really wasn´t quite ready to go back.   She made all the arrangements for us and even called the head sister at our Hogar to let her know we would be staying another day.  We spend the rest of the day going out into the surrounding countryside to visit a honey festival, which so great, and I even discovered that I really do like honey.  I have never tasted honey straight out the honeycomb and it´s unlike any honey I had ever taked before.  We also sampled all sorts of baked goods make with honey and they were all really good.  We were having trouble finding a taxi for our ride back into town, when some workers offered us a ride in the back of their pickup.  Honestly, it felt like something straight out of a movie.  I hopped in and sat on the edge of the truck bed just like the men were doing, when the driver tapped the window, shook his head and motioned for me to sit on the truck bed.  I guess he thought I´d go flying right out the back of the truck.  Little does he know how many times I did this sort of thing when I was kid, but I complied, even if my pride was a little wounded.  Our next stop was a cheese factory, but that turned out to be a bit of a disappointment, so we decided to have a cup of coffee somewhere.  In the process, we found a little jewel of a town, Buena Vista, that reminded me somewhat of pictures I´ve seen of Costa Rica.  We spend the evening just relaxing in the beautiful little plaza before heading home.

The next morning, we were again all set to go home, when I sisters told us we would need to stay another day because of  road blockage being staged for politcal reasons.  Oh darn!  Sister Anna let us go with her to spend a few hours in Santa Cruz.  We all had lunch together and then Angela and I took a taxi so we could spend one more afternoon in Buena Vista.  We met a very nice young man from South Africa and shared dinner, beer and great conversation.  We did have a little stress in trying to get home.  We had to wait two hours for a taxi because we learned that the blockage was effecting taxis getting through as well. 

The following morning, we were finally able to go home and I was ready...really missing the girls and Anna our German volunteer.  Sister Anna accompanied us as far as Yakipani, where the blockade was still going on, to make sure we got across safley.  It was all very peaceful and there was no violence, but I was glad she was with us, all the same, as this was all so new and strange for us.  On the journey home, the big storm hit and I was very cold until a rather large indigenous woman kind of snuggled with me and it really helped.  We chatted a bit and then she reached into her apron and pulled out a pice of bubble gum to share with me.   I was very touched and will always remember her sweet gesture.

Oh, before I forget, when I was in Montero and Yakipani, I also rode on moto taxis, which are something unique to the area.  It´s basically a taxi ride on a motorcyle,  You have to side saddle, as it´s considered too forward for a woman to sit up against the driver.  Talk about scary.  They zip in and out of traffic and I was so afraid my tangling feet were going to hit the sides of the cars we were passing.  I came home feeling so good, very tired, and like I´d really lived life to the full for those six days.    The girls were so, so happy to see me.  I was very touched and could very honestly tell them that I had missed then a lot too. 

So that was my Thankgiving.  I will never forget it and will have so many beautiful memories to draw on when I´m having a rough day.  I hope all of you have a wonderful and memorable Thanksgiving too.  I miss all of you and hope everyone is healthy and happy.   To my son Daniel, all my family and dear friends, I love you!  Take good care.  Judy

PS:  Our German Shepard had nine beautiful, healthy little pups while we were gone.  Pics to follow!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

November in Bolivia

The days are flying by and next week, Angela and I will have our first little holiday.  There are several Salesian volunteers througout Bolivia and we all be meeting next week to celebrate Thanksgiving.  Yes, we are celebrating early because some of us have committments the following weekend, but it doesn´t matter...I know we are all looking forward to it and will have a wonderful time.  I´m anxious to see another part of Bolivia and can´t wait to see four of the women Angela and I went through orientation with back in New York.  It will be so great to share our stories and experiences.  Although, it is still spring here the weather has been very warm.   I took the pictures below so you could see where I live now.   I never get tired of looking at the mountains.  They are so beautiful and they remind me somewhat of both southern California and the mountains in southern Oregon.  My favorite time of day is in the evening, when the shadows fall on the mountains in a certain way and they look so mysterious.

This morning I helped take the three little ones for their dance finals at their school.  Dance is part of their cirriculum and is taken very seriously.  I can´t tell you how cute all the dancers were.  In our little group of three, two were butterflys and one was a tiger.  I took lots of pictures but will need to post them later.  We also had a group of teenagers and young women who were confirmed today, so we had a celebration and a special meal in the afternoon.   The rest of the day has been quiet and relaxed and I even was able to take a nap!    Until next time...Love, Judy

Friday, November 11, 2011

Morning view of the Andes surrounding our hogar

This is the portion of the hogar that I live in.  My room is on the ground floor, right behind the doors

Garden area outside my room

This is the third house, at the oppisite end where the other two volunteers live.

Our guard dog, Dianna.  She will having puppies soon!

Another view of the area where the other two volunteers live.

View of the first and second house.

Play area and condominiums across the steet from the hogar.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Walking to ballet

My ballerinas, Santusa, Belen, and Sylvia

My room...a work in progress

Anna, baking a cake

Noellia and Elaina, saying goodnight

Rosa, dressed for her Bolivian dance

A dance performance to celebrate Sr. Mikaela´s birthday


Our premier dancer, Maribel

A day off and coffee at my favorite cafe

The streets of Cochabamba




This week I have asked myself the question….when you are writing a blog, do you only include what is good and positive or do you give a holistic picture of what it is like to adjust to living in a culture so very different from your own.?  I´ve decided it´s important and certainly more honest to share all of it. 
This was a week of extremes for me.  Last Monday, as I was riding the bus into town, taking the girls to their ballet lesson, I felt so proud of myself and experienced a feeling of really belonging.  I helped an indigenous woman adjust her load of watermelons and kept them stable with my feet as we travelled over the bumpy roads.  She was very grateful and chatted with me a bit in Spanish.   More importantly, I actually understood what  she was saying.
Later in the week, Angela and I went into town again, for probably the 16th time since we arrived, to deal with visa issues.  I can´t tell you how frustrating it is and on days like this, you feel  very unwanted and are inclined to wonder what the heck you are doing all this for.   But then you come home to the girls, who are so genuinely happy to see you and kiss you and hug you as though you have been gone for a very long time and not just a few hours.
Wednesday, was a particularly rough day for me.  I was feeling homesick, my little five-year old charges had been very naughty that day, and we volunteers were feeling  not quite as supported as we might like in that regard.  To top it all off,  one of the girls decided to play a couple of practical jokes on me and well, let´s just say, I wasn´t laughing.  During the rosary that evening, I could feel the tears about to spill over, when of my darling, favorite girls, reached over, held  my land and gave it several gentle squeezes.   Of course, that really made me cry, but they were good tears. 
The next day was our day off, and it was one of my best days ever.  Emotions are very fickle, I´ve learned.  We had a wonderful time in town and the week ended on a very positive note.  The girls make it all worthwhile.  They are so special, and, best of all, they love my singing.  They are always asking me to sing a song for them and I´m teaching the five year olds how to sing Twinkle Twinkle little star, which they will perform for the sisters sometime around Christmas.   I  also made the mistake of doing a witches voice one day for the girls when I was reading them a story and now they are constantly asking me to do the witches voice.  I´ve had to tell them, I will only do at night before they go to bed and only if they are very good.
In the daily activity trivia area,  my handmade curtains are almost done, the garden is coming along nicely and the girls are going to teach me how to use the foot pedal sewing machines they use at the hogar.    Making bedspreads  for my bed will be my next project.  Next week I will start Spanish lessons on my day off at the cultural exchange center.   I´m really pleased with my progress in learning Spanish, but I think the lessons will be good for me.    It´s almost time to take the girls to the park, so until next week…

Love,
Judy

Sunday, October 23, 2011

One Month in Bolivia

Hi Everyone,

I continue to struggle with photos.  Each photo takes about five minutes to load and the time I have online is very limited, but I was at least able to upload a few this time.  Today is exactly one month since I arrived.  You know how it is; in some ways I feel as though I´ve been here forever and in other ways the time has flown by.  I had a great week this past week.  We have had visitors from Germany and so our lunches have been extra special and yesterday the other  volunteers and I were allowed the afternoon off to show them around the city.  We had a wonderful  time and ended the evening at an outdoor café.  It was such a beautiful warm night, with great conversation.and the huge chocolate éclair wasn´t bad either.   Today the German couple is making all of us baked apples , which we´ll eat after we take the girls to the park.    I´m currently sewing curtains for my room by hand.  After mass this morning, we all sat outside working on various crafts and I put some of the girls to work on my curtains.  Anna and I have also been working very hard on the grounds and clearing an area where we can plant a few things of our own.  Our tools are minimal and most of the girls looked at us like we were crazy.  I think I may have mentioned this in my last my blog.  It is really coming along though, and  two more girls pitched in yesterday to help.  I´ll try and send pictures of the finished project.  You should see some of the spiders we encounter.    Anna and I scream and dance around and then get back to work.  They really are horrible and about the size of a quarter!   Time to go to the park now, so  until next week….Love,  Judy

Grounds of hogar, Andes in the background

Girls making First Holy Communion

Their beautiful faces

For my cousin Stephanie, mi bano, hot water included and great water preasure!